How to tell if your are getting a True Psychic Reading

How to tell if you are getting A True Psychic Reading

Often we are bombarded by commercials and infomercials on our televisions about the best and
most accurate psychics. There are times when a person in need of a psychic reading does not know
which way to turn. Especially when we are feeling afraid, lonely, confused, or lost.

While there are some people with true psychic abilities, the majority of the so called psychics are
not. When you are calling a psychic, many of these non psychics will give you generic answers and

try to keep you on the phone so they can collect more money from you.

Here are a few facts on what true psychic readers can and cannot do:

- Psychic readers read your energy or your soul. A psychic should always respect your energy.

- A psychic reading is about you and your personal development. A good psychic will be able to help
you see what you can do to improve your life and avoid pitfalls.

- When you are having difficulties in your life, a psychic reading should give you insight as to how
you can make the decisions to make things better.

- Psychics are human and do not always know the answer. If they cannot see a certain aspect of
your future, they should be honest and let you know they are not clear on the answer.

- The purpose of obtaining a psychic is to answer questions and guide you as to the best way to go
about solving problems.

- A good psychic can only tell you how you may solve your problem, you need to decide what you
want to do about it.

- A good psychic should be able to warn you of major obstacles that lay ahead of you, so that you
can be prepared for the inevitable and take the measures necessary to smooth out the problems.

- Psychics will not tell you silly things like what you had for lunch today, or what time you got out of
bed this morning. The messages that Psychics receive are usually of import to your spiritual journey.
That is the way it usually works, you won't get a lot of miscellaneous information that is not relevant
to your current situation.

- Some psychics say they can perform a spell to alleviate your pain. Unless these people are true
healers, they are usually after your money. I truly believe in the mind, body, spirit connection and
know there are several wonderful psychic healers, Rieki Masters, Hypnotherapist,EFT,Kinetic Healers,
Aromatherapist, and Herbalist whom can help speed along the healing process. However they all
work with the body and its systems there are no magic bullets and no miracle cures.

- There are Psychics who can perform certain rituals or spells with divine help that are successful.

- A true psychic cannot perform a spell that will bring back your lover. Anyone who says they can is
only after your hard earned cash. Everyone has a free will and there is no amount of spells, or
talismans that will make a person come back to someone the do not want to be with.


- No amount of prayer, healing, or rituals will help a person who is unwilling to move forward. These
people should first decide to give up the old and embrace the new before any part of their lives can
be healed.

- A psychic is not able to pick the winning lottery numbers. It is common sense that tells us if that were the case, only psychics would be lottery winners. The same is true of betting on any sports team, horse race, dog race, or casino table or machine.

- If you are uncomfortable with a psychic, stop the reading and try someone else. There is no reason to sit through a reading with someone you do not like or trust.

Finding a Psychic that you truly connect with can be a very rewarding and useful experience don't let one'bad' reading deter you.

Brightest Blessings

©LadyeFalcon 2010

About Psychic Abilities

Brief Overview of Basic Psychic Abilities

The most recognized psychic abilities are the‘ clairs’ from 17th century French meaning clear. Psychic abilities cover a large range of talents and skills. The 'clairs' are directly connected to our five senses. I have noticed that Psychic Abilities for the most part are basically a 'heightened' sense. Most people have a dominant sense, so finding an Advisor whose dominant skill correlates to your dominant sense may improve your reading experience.

Clairvoyance: (clear vision)

The ability to gain information about an object, person, location or physical event through means other than the known human senses is different from telepathy in that the information is said to be gained directly from an external physical source, rather than being transferred from the mind of one individual to another. Clairvoyance is often used to refer to other forms of most commonly the perception of events that have occurred in the past, or which will occur in the future. Clairvoyance is related to remote viewing as the talent relies heavily on the ‘sense’ of sight.

Claircognizance:(clear knowledge)

Is a form of extra-sensory perception wherein a person acquires psychic knowledge primarily by means of intrinsic knowledge. It is the ability to know something without a physical explanation why you know it. This is one of the most frustrating of all to share with others but from my opinion and experience it is the most reliable. There is really no way to explain it the ‘answer’ just ‘pops’ into your head and you just know it is the answer. Images, feelings, and words can be misconstrued as you try to share what you are being shown or what you feel. However people always look for affirmations and there is really no way to explain how you know what you have shared is accurate other than I just know, very frustrating for both parties.

Clairsentience:(clear feelings)

Is a form of extra-sensory perception wherein a person acquires psychic knowledge primarily by means of feeling. This is often the ‘gut instinct’ and ‘intuition’ that so many rely on without even being aware they have and are using psychic ability. Form my experiences this is the most common and widely used form of Psychic ability

Clairaudience: clear hearing)

Is a form of extra-sensory perception wherein a person acquires information by paranormal auditory means. Many of the people I know whom possess clairaudience can actually hear the voices that one hears on the electrical recording as they are happening even though most people are unable to hear such messages without the aid of a sophisticated voice recording device. I have actually seen this in action. I watched a clairaudient psychic write down a message she heard during an investigation we were doing. She folded it up and handed it to another investigator. When we played back the recording we all heard word for word what she wrote down. We thought ok maybe the power of suggestion so we took the recording to a another group and they reported hearing exactly the same thing even though they were not informed of our little experiment.

Clairalience:(clear smelling)

Is a form of extra-sensory perception wherein a person acquires psychic knowledge primarily by means of smelling. People with this ability can tell a ‘haunted place’ by its smell. They quite frequently recognize the presence of entities by a particular fragrance that was associated with the spirit. As my mother is fond of saying " Your Father can smell the grass growing". Some people seem to have a heightened sense of smell and can tell if a person, place or thing is haunted, by the way it smells. Just like some people can smell a storm, perhaps there is some sort of ionization that is produced by spirits that they can smell. I have often wondered if this is how dogs and other animals sense spirits.

Clairgustance:(clear taste)

Is a form of-family: extra-sensory perception that allows one to taste a substance without putting anything in one's mouth. It is claimed that those who possess this ability are able to perceive the essence of a substance from the spiritual or ethereal realms through taste. I posted this one last as this is one I have never encountered. I am not sure how it works as I have never experienced it myself nor met anyone that has this ability so I would wager this is a rather rare skill.

© LadyeFalcon 2010

Moon Lore- Phases

Phases of the Moon
The moon and stars were very important to our agricultural and seafaring  ancestors. They provided light, guidance, direction, and marked the wheel of the year.

Over the centuries through careful study and observation our ancestors learned much about the moon and its effects on forces of nature, the plants, animals and even humankind.

Though we do not live in so close a connection and in harmony with the moon in these times, it still wields influence over our environment, the forces of nature and all living beings including humans.

Having some basic understanding of the moon phases and its influences can be a great boon to those whom seek spiritual growth, or those whom wish a more harmonious environment.

The moon has two states of being

Waxing ( from new to full)

Waning ( from full to dark)

Activities that are focused on growth, increase and gain are best attended to during the waxing moon. The waxing moon is better suited for constructive ventures.

Activities and projects that are focused on  release, discovery and lessening are best attended to during the waning moon. The waning moon is better suited for destructive pursuits.

There are four phases of the moon

Dark ( Hag Moon)

New  ( Maiden Moon)

Full ( Mother Moon)

Waning Crescent ( Crone Moon)

The energy of each phase it best suited for specific types of activities as well.

Dark Moon

The Dark moon is the hag moon, and its energy is best suited for rest, scrying and looking inward. This is a time to explore our darkest recesses and understand our angers and passions. This is the time we confornt our dragons, and the secrets we keep even from ourselves. Most magicks practiced on the Hag Moon are baleful in their results so many avoid any  spell work during the Hag Moon.

New Moon

New  Moon is  best suited to new projects and workings that are focused on hope, youth, and  beauty. Love, renewal, regeneration, and new beginnings are well suited to this moon. 

Full Moon

Just as a  mother is a jack of all trades the full moon is as well. The list would be endless. The Full moon is at the height of the moon powers, this is the time we 'wrap things up', and celebrate all life's joys.

Crone Moon

This is the time we prepare for the workings of the waxing moon.  We review our current path and determine  what needs changing, or what we need to do in order to achieve our goals and desires. This is a very powerful time to seek guidance and engage in divination. Dreams during this time will tend to be prophetic.

It is said that the energy of the moons phase will hold sway for three days once it has set, with it energy gradually loosing influence. So the closer to the actual phase you get the better.

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Hours and Days of the Moon and how to use them to your advantage.